How to read other people's messages in contact. Sending text messages and sending settings

Using “VKontakte” we are always in touch with friends and family and we can correspond everywhere if there is Internet.
For greater convenience, during correspondence we can forward, copy, search or delete messages. Is it possible to recover SMS after intentional deletion?

1. Return one message
2. How to restore a dialogue in contact
3. New ways to restore correspondence
4. Conclusion

Recovering one individual message

To correspond with a friend, you need to go to the “My Messages” tab in the main menu on the left. Here are dialogues with users. Open the chat and see the correspondence.
To delete a letter, you just need to select it and click “Delete”. The request “Are you sure you want to delete 1 message?” will appear, click “Yes” and it will instantly disappear. In its place a blue field with the word “Restore” will appear. Click and the deleted notification will return to full access.
But this method valid until you have buried the dialogue.

How to restore a dialogue in contact

To delete the entire history, you need to go to the “Messages” section, highlight the chat and click “Delete”. IN in this case, the application warns that it is impossible to resume correspondence and asks you to confirm your actions.
Yes, it’s unlikely that you’ll be able to return the entire conversation on your own, but in fact, the user can regain access to deleted correspondence.
While the interlocutor remained this story messages, you can ask him to forward SMS and you will be able to see them as incoming messages.
If needed full access notifications, you should contact the VKontakte support service. Open “Help” and type “Recover deleted messages” in the search field.
Click “This doesn’t solve my problem” and go to the help “I still have questions.”
You will be taken to a page where you will personally describe the problem in the notification and send it to support for review. As long as the interlocutor has not deleted the correspondence, the entire history is in the database, and administrators can return it. It’s better to write that the dialogue was not deleted intentionally.
Click the "Submit" footnote and you will see the time it takes for a response to appear. View it in the “My Questions” tab.

New ways to restore correspondence

If email address linked to the VKontakte page, then you can use it to read deleted history SMS.
Go to your VK profile and turn on the notifications function email. This is done in the “Settings” section in the “Alerts” tab. In the list above, select the notifications that you want to receive by E-Mail.
You can go to your email and see interesting information from the “VKontakte” page and remote chat. It may not be restored completely - it depends on the size of the correspondence history.
You can use VkOpt extension. This is not independent program or an application, this is just an extension of “VKontakte”. With its help, we have more options on our online profile.
It's quite easy to use. Install it in your browser and log in again. At the bottom of the account you will find the inscription “VkOpt” - that means everything worked out. Go to messages and next to the “Dialogues” section, select “SMS statistics”. Using the extension, we find the user whose correspondence interests you and by selecting the date of communication you can return deleted notifications.
Remember: install this extension necessary from official programs!

Conclusion

As you can see, there are plenty of ways to solve this problem. The safest course of action is to contact a friend or support team, as this does not require additional applications.
Better yet, just don’t delete your messages without making sure you don’t need them.

How to find out if there are new (unread) VKontakte messages?

Do you want to find out about VKontakte messages without going there? This is possible without you appearing online! Use the “Login” site. Connect your VK page (using the button "Entrance") and visit this site at any time to see if you have new unread VKontakte messages. At the same time, you will not be online, as if you are not on the site (as if invisible). It also shows other VKontakte events (comments, likes, friend requests, tags in photos, etc.). Like this:

And if you are already on the VKontakte website, then you will know about new messages by the icon next to the menu item "Messages" There will be a “plus” and a number indicating how many new messages you have - for example, +1 . Click on "Messages" and you will see them.

How to read a VKontakte message?

If you are already using home page“Login”, it’s very simple. When you open it at the website address, it shows how many new messages you have (for example, “ Posts: 1"). Just click there and your messages will open right away. Unread ones will be highlighted with a pale blue background, and next to it will be written who sent them to you. Click on the message you want to read (there may be more than one message, but only the most recent one is shown first).

What to do if VKontakte shows unread messages, but there are none?

The VKontakte website may show that you have unread messages (for example, +1 ), although there are none. It's just a glitch. Refresh the page completely (press the key combination Ctrl-F5) or clear temporary files (cache) of your browser.

How to write and send a message?

Go to the page of the person you want to write to (just click on their name). There will be a button "Send message." Click on it and write a message. You need to say hello and be polite. Then press "Send", and the message will be sent.

If the buttons "Send message" no, that means the person allowed only some people to write to him. For example, only to friends. If you are not his friend, then in this case you will not be able to write a message. It may also turn out that he blocked you personally, if there were reasons for this.

If you want to send a message to someone you've already written to before, just go to "Messages" and find him there - all correspondence will open, and you can write a new message.

The question often arises: why doesn’t a person respond to messages on VK? The point is that he doesn't have to answer you. Even if he read your message, he may want to remain silent. Therefore, you should not continue to flood your interlocutor with messages, he may simply block you and you will not be able to communicate with him at all.

So, when a person reads the message and whether he reads it at all depends only on him!

How to recover deleted messages, dialogue, correspondence?

How to delete or cancel a message if you sent it to the wrong person?

How can I prevent people from sending me messages?

Go to VKontakte settings (where they are located), then to "Privacy" and find it under the title "Contact Me" setting “Who can write me private messages.” There you can choose one of the options:

  • All users
  • Friends only
  • Friends and friends of friends
  • Nobody
  • Everything except...
  • Some friends
  • Some friends lists

That is, for example, to allow only friends to write you private messages and prohibit others from writing you personal messages, you need to select "Only friends." Once you select, your selection will be saved automatically.

And if you want to ban to a specific person send you messages, just block this person.

How do I disable or enable message notifications from a specific person?

VKontakte has the ability to disable notifications about messages from a certain person. Messages will arrive, but notifications will not pop up. This is convenient if someone bothers you with messages, but you don’t want to block him completely, you can simply turn off notifications from him:

How can I turn off message notifications from a specific person?

Go into a conversation (dialogue) with this person, open the three-dot menu at the top and click "Disable notifications." Messages will now show an icon that looks like a crossed out speaker.

How do I enable notifications for messages from a specific person?

If you don't receive message notifications from a person, you may have accidentally turned them off. Go into a conversation (dialogue) with this person, open the menu at the top (three dots) and click "Enable notifications."

Is it possible to read other people's messages on VKontakte?

No, there is absolutely no way to do this. You can only approach a person and ask them to show you their private messages, and then expect him or her to agree.

How to quietly read VKontakte messages

vk.com/im?q=day:31122014

(these numbers indicate the date - in in this example 31.12.2014)

Following this link you will see all messages that were written before 12/31/2014. A new window will open in your browser in which you will have the opportunity to read messages sent by you and addressed to you until December 31, 2014. This way you can read all messages and they will not be marked as read either for you or for your interlocutor.

Second working method

If you want to quietly read new messages in Contact, you can use another method. To do this, you need to go to “My Messages”, then in the search column for messages or interlocutors you need to enter any word and follow the “Search” link. After that, move the mouse cursor over the button that is located next to the “Search” button - “Messages before specific date" A calendar will open in front of you. There you should click today or the next date.

Highlight the word you entered in the search box using the mouse, click right button mouse and select “Delete” or press the key on the keyboard . This way you will delete the word you entered. At the end you need to click the “Search” button and you will see everything latest messages. Now you can quietly read your messages at any time convenient for you.

I never thought that writing, sending and reading personal messages on VKontakte causes difficulties for many users.
It would seem simpler: click the button in the left menu My Messages , on the page that opens in the field "To whom" Enter the recipient's name, write the text of the message, attach a document and send the message. However, such a problem exists, judging by the questions received by mail.


However, it becomes very unpleasant when users ask “how to read OTHERS’ personal messages on VKontakte” , and even “...read personal messages on VKontakte for FREE” ...Even just for purely ethical reasons, reading someone else’s mail has always been and is still considered bad manners. Personally, would you like your personal correspondence to become public knowledge? So why do some people think that you can’t read what’s mine, but you can and should read someone else’s? I will never understand this... And I won’t even answer such questions.



But let's return to what we wrote earlier. How to write and send a personal message to friends from the page My Messages , I think you understand.

How to write a message to a user who is not a friend?

To do this, go to the user’s page and immediately below the avatar click the blue button Send message. In the window that opens, fill in the field "Theme" and write the text of the message. Button "Send" send a message.

By the way, when sending a friend request, you can also attach a personal message, for example, indicating for what purpose you want to be added as a friend.


How to send messages to all friends in contact.

Sometimes it becomes necessary to inform all your friends on VKontakte about something, but sending one personal message to each individual is long and tedious. To speed up the process, VKontakte has the ability to send messages to several recipients at once.

But, unfortunately, you won’t be able to send private messages to all your friends at once. In VKontakte this will already be regarded as spamming. Therefore, a limit has been set. The maximum personal messages you can send with one click is 14.

Selecting several users from "Friends List" and fill in the field "Theme". Next click Create a conversation.


Enter the text of your message, attach necessary documents(map, photos, music, etc.) and press the button "Send".

But keep in mind that at the same time they will all be involved in the conversation, that is, their possible answers will be seen by all other participants in the correspondence.

Well, the message is written and sent. By the way, how do you know whether the recipient has read your message or not? Open the page again My messages. Blue on the tab Dialogues All unread messages are highlighted, both by you and your interlocutors, and read ones are highlighted in white.

To find out specifically, click on the blue box, and if the message has not been read by you, the blue highlight immediately disappears.

Today, the site developers have made it even easier to view personal messages on VKontakte and some other functions. When you receive a new message, in the left menu opposite the button My messages a number with a plus sign appears - ( +1 ). By clicking on this number, you will see a message and, going to the list of dialogues, you can answer it.


You can find out that you have received a new personal message even if you are on a different page of the site or even in a different browser tab. To do this on the page My Settings - block Alerts V Instant notifications on the site check the box Personal messages and other events ( friend requests, “Like” marks, answers in comments etc.) about which you want to receive notifications, as well as Show message text And Turn on sound alerts . Now, no matter what VKontakte page you are on, when a new message arrives you will hear beep and a notification window will pop up at the bottom left with the message and details of its author.


By clicking on the cross, you can close the window and return to the message later in Dialogues, where all personal messages on VKontakte are stored. It will not be marked as read. And if you just click on the window, a chat window will open at the bottom right, where you can immediately write a response. Dispatch quick messages occurs when pressed Enter on the keyboard.


Who you cannot write or send private messages to.

  • The user who blacklisted you.
  • A user whose privacy settings are set to “ Who can write me private messages - Nobody".

How to forward messages on VKontakte?

My messages , then click on the block with the message opposite the user whose message we will forward. Next click on desired message. A check mark appears next to the message, and a button appears at the top right Forward. Click on the button, select the recipient, add a couple of words of the message or paste it into the message field 14; (we remove the space in the middle) - our recipient will receive a message without text, and we send it.

An empty message is, of course, great, but it’s not always exactly what you need. But how can you make the text of the message also become a link to your page or group?


So, clickable text:
  • Hyperlink to user
  • Hyperlink to group
  • Hyperlink to public
  • Hyperlink to the event

Instead of asterisks, insert the user ID to whose page the user will be redirected after clicking on the text. Same with other hyperlinks. And instead of the word Text We write whatever comes into our heads))).

Or maybe we need to put emphasis on the word? Then set 769; after the required letter. Don't forget to remove the space between characters.

Cross out text? Before each letter we put ̶ 822;

Don't forget to remove the space...

By the way, all these techniques also work for wall messages.

It is impossible to cancel the sending of a sent personal message on VKontakte. Even if you delete the sent message from yourself, it will still be delivered to the recipient.


Deleting messages on VKontakte.


You can completely delete all correspondence with a specific user from Dialogues. When you hover an arrow over the box with a user’s message, a cross appears; by clicking on it, we completely delete all messages, both ours and our recipient’s.

If you need to delete only some personal messages, then go to Viewing Conversations, check the box unnecessary messages(the check mark can be canceled by clicking on the message again) and delete the selected ones.

You can delete an unread message only by deleting the entire dialogue in the block Dialogues.

Deleted messages can only be recovered while you are on the page Viewing Conversations by pressing the button Restore. After updating the page, deleted personal messages can no longer be restored. The only way out is to write to the person whose correspondence you deleted with a request to copy it and send it to you. But documents attached to remote correspondence are not copied or forwarded.

True, there are a number of programs so that you can restore VKontakte messages, but I won’t dwell on them now.


And parting advice:

Full speed ahead coming new divorce on social networks. The scammer creates new pages, for example, with your friend’s name, posts photos copied from his page, and then asks for your phone number on his behalf. Allegedly forgotten, lost, etc. The second stage of the scam - the scammer asks you to tell him a code that will be sent to your mobile phone. This is how money disappears from your phone.

If you conduct personal correspondence with someone, then it always opens only in the window where all earlier correspondence is saved and visible. If suddenly a new message arrives, but you don’t see the old ones and you haven’t deleted them, then this is a reason to wonder whether a real friend is writing to you.

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Good afternoon everyone. In this article we will talk about one of the main functions of the VKontakte social network - sending messages to other users. And at the same time we will learn about some of the nuances associated with sending messages, find out what capabilities and functionality they have, figure out how to manage correspondence and much more.

VKontakte messages are quite powerful tool. Let's find out about everything in order...

VKontakte messages. What, how and why?

Message alert. New messages on VKontakte

When a message arrives from another user, the site notifies you about it. There are several types:

  • instant notification on the website;
  • notification via SMS to your phone number;
  • notification via email;

The second and third types of notifications work when you have set the appropriate settings in the “Notifications” section. Instant notification on the site is configured by default. When someone writes to you, the number “1” appears in the main menu of the page opposite the “Messages” item.

How to find out the number of new messages on VKontakte? It's very simple. On home page you can see what number is in the main menu opposite the “Messages” item. If, for example, there is the number 3, then this means that three people wrote to you.

It should be remembered that on the main page this counter indicates exactly the number of people who wrote to you (and each of them could write more than one message). If 4 people wrote you 6 messages, then the number “4” will be displayed here, not “24”! And when we go to the dialogue section, we can see how many messages a particular person has written.

Sending text messages and sending settings

There are three ways to send text messages on the site:

  1. through the “Messages” menu item (via “VKontakte” dialogues);
  2. from the page of the user you want to write to;
  3. via quick chat;

1. Let's look at the first option - communication through the VKontakte dialogue page. This is the most common and most convenient way correspondence. In the main menu you need to select “Messages” item, after which you are taken to a page with a list of dialogs. Here you can select any interlocutor with whom you have already communicated or use the search in the list of dialogues.

I would like to note this point. Until you have written text in the input field, the button for entering a voice message is available (microphone icon to the right of the field). As soon as you start typing, the send voice message button changes to a regular send button. This means that you can send either this or that message (a combined text and voice message cannot be sent). About how to send voice messages, will be discussed in the next article.

As mentioned above, you can send a message using the “Enter” key. But we remember that usually this key text editor line wrapping is carried out. “VKontakte” line transfer is carried out by pressing the key combinations “Shift+Enter”. If you are not satisfied with this option, then there is another one. In the second case, line breaks are carried out using the “Enter” key, and sending is carried out using the “Ctrl+Enter” key combination. To select this option, you need to hover your mouse cursor over the “Submit” button and in the window that opens, check the box next to the second option.

2. Second sending option - from user page. To do this, we look among friends (or through search) the right person and go to his page. Under the avatar, click on “Write a message” and begin a dialogue with a new interlocutor.

3. And the third sending option is through quick chat. If you look at the lower right corner of your screen, you will see a small window there with the number of users and a thumbnail of the avatar of one of your friends. This is the quick chat access window. The counter displays the number of friends online. If you click on the window, a list of dialogs will open. You can conduct correspondence directly from here - you choose the right interlocutor, and start communicating.

In this case, messages sent via quick chat are also displayed in the list of dialogues on the “Messages” page. You can close the chat at any time and go to normal dialogue with the interlocutor, while the correspondence history will be preserved.

How do you know if the other person has read the message?

To find out whether the interlocutor has read your message or not, just look at its color in the correspondence. Unread items are highlighted in light blue, and after reading, the background becomes white, like the background of the rest of the correspondence.

It often happens that VKontakte shows unread messages, but there are none. This is a site glitch (and this also happens). You should refresh the page and sometimes clear your browser cache. As a rule, after this the counter is reset to zero. Often such a jamb happens in mobile version“VK”. Typically, in this case, you have to close and reopen the application. But sometimes this doesn’t help, and you have to restart the phone. Apparently, this glitch appears on weaker phone models.

How can you find out if your interlocutor has read your messages or not while in the dialogue list? Your unread messages are always on top and have a slightly bluish tint rather than light. In addition, there is a counter near them unread messages, displaying their number.


Attachments to VKontakte messages

The possibilities of correspondence would be greatly limited if it were not possible to attach media files and other documents to your text messages. But the creators social network Everything has been thought through and provided for, so you can not only communicate with friends, but also exchange photos and videos, attach music, documents to dialogues, and even transfer money.

Photos, videos, music

Let's look at all possible attachments to messages. Since the most common and frequently used attachment is a photo, attaching photos implemented separate button. It looks like a camera icon at the end of the text field.

Moreover, this function implements attaching photos only from hard drive computer. If you want to attach a photo from a personal photo album, select the first item in the attachment menu.

In the window that opens you can:

  • select a photo from a photo album;
  • upload a photo from your computer via the “Upload Photo” tab;
  • take a photo with installed webcam through the “Take a photo” tab;

Similarly, you can attach a video to the correspondence. We select the second item in the attachment menu “Video recording”, and in the window that opens, you can either select a video from the list of your video recordings, or use the search for all videos in the social network database. Music is attached in the same way - either from own list records, or through a global search in the VKontakte music database.

Attaching documents

You can attach any document to the correspondence - for example, an estimate in Excel format or text document, PDF file etc. There is a “Document” attachment for this. Select it and download the required file from your computer.

It is worth remembering that “VKontakte” cannot attach execution files or scripts – with the extension .exe, .apk or .js. This way the site limits distribution pirated programs and viruses. Moreover, these files are recognized even when they are archived.

If you have already sent any files, they are automatically saved in “Documents”. If you decide to resend them to someone, you simply need to select them from the list of documents that opens with the “Documents” attachment type.

Card attachment

You can attach a map to any message on which you can mark a point or place. This can also be done through the attachment menu. Select the “Map” item and open a window with a world map. There are not many settings here - you can change the scale, change the map type (scheme, satellite or hybrid), or use the map search. In addition, there is a mark on the map that can be moved anywhere, thereby indicating an object or location, which can then be sent to the interlocutor.

As a rule, it is always more convenient to use the search on the map. For example, I need to mention the Nizhny Novgorod Kremlin. I type in “ Nizhny Novgorod”, then I move the marker to the Kremlin - and you can send the map by clicking on the “Attach location” button.

Gifts and money transfer

Through VK messages you can also send gifts to friends or transfer money to them. We will talk about how to send a gift or a gift to a friend in the relevant articles.

Attaching emoticons

Emoticons are needed to express emotions that cannot be conveyed in a text message. To attach an emoticon, you need to hover over the face icon after the text field.

Next, select from the drop-down list the right smiley or use the scroll bar and select the desired symbol from several sets that the social network has. Those emoticons that you use regularly in messages are displayed at the top in the “Frequently Used” section.

Actions with messages

Why can't I send a message to the user?

It's all about privacy settings. Most likely, the person you are trying to write to has set it to say that only friends can write to him. If you are not friends with this person, then the function of sending a message will not be available to you. Some people limit themselves in this way from all sorts of spam and fraudulent correspondence so that they are not disturbed by strangers.

In order to write to this person, you will have to send him a request to add you as a friend. Only after he confirms that you are his friend will you be able to write to him.

The person could also blacklist you. At the same time, you will also not be able to write to him. (In more detail, why it is not possible to write to the user is described in)

By the way, you can make the same settings yourself if you don’t want to be disturbed by strangers.

How to edit a VKontakte message

To the great joy of users of the social network, it appeared not so long ago. You can make changes within 24 hours after sending it. If you hover your mouse over it, a check mark will appear on the left, and on the right you will see a pencil icon. All you need to do to edit is click on it and editing will become available.

In the window that opens, you can change the text part, as well as add new attachments or emoticons. After editing is complete, you need to click on the check mark icon. If you change your mind about making edits, you can quickly close the editing window with a cross.


Deleting individual messages

How to delete a “VKontakte” message? Sometimes you need to “remove” some part of the correspondence from the dialogue. If you hover over any message, a check mark appears on the left. If you activate it, an action bar with a dialog appears at the top. Select the icon with the trash can and click on it. A window will open where we will be asked to confirm the action (“Are you sure you want to delete the message?”) Click on the “Delete” button and get rid of the message.

Remember - deleted VKontakte messages can be restored as long as you have not updated or reloaded the page. Until this point, the recovery operation will be available. After updating the page or closing the site, restore deleted message impossible! You also cannot cancel a message that has already been sent.

Personal messages on VKontakte. How to clear chat history

You may have some personal, secret messages that you don’t want to show to anyone at all. You never know - they forgot to close the page on personal computer, or left the phone, and someone (parents, friends, wife/husband) took it and read the correspondence. In these cases, clearing the correspondence history will help you, since it deletes not only all messages, but also the dialogue itself from the list of dialogues.

To delete correspondence, go to the dialogue menu (icon with three dots) and select “Clear correspondence history”. After this, you will be asked if you really want to clear your history and warned that you can cancel this action will be impossible. To complete the action, click the “Delete” button.

As we wrote above, it is impossible to cancel this action! So think carefully before deleting your chat history.

How to forward a message

In order to forward a message, you need to select it (the same as with the delete action). After this, two buttons “Reply” and “Forward” will become available above the dialogue. The difference between them is that the first one works only in a given dialogue (you seem to be quoting a message from your interlocutor, like on a forum), while using the “Forward” button you can forward any message from one dialogue to another.

Next we move on to general list dialogs and select the one where we need to forward the message. The forwarded message now appears as an attachment. You can also add something in the text field, attach an attachment, or add an emoticon. You can also cancel the attachment action by clicking on the cross.

A very convenient function, with its help you can quickly transfer news or the desired attachment from one dialogue to another.

Important messages on VKontakte

Some messages can be marked with a special importance icon, after which they are saved in the section. Imagine they are sending you some important information. You can, of course, put it in notebook, but VK provided handy tool to store important information.

Go to any dialogue and hover over the message. A star icon will appear on the right with the hint “Mark as important.” Let's tag!

After that it appears in the “ Important messages” (right top corner pages).

If we go to the section, then there we will see the entire list of “importances” we have noted. Here we can unmark the importance, look at the date of the message, or go to the dialogue itself (arrow icon). By the way, the importance can be removed in the dialogue itself, and not just in the section with marked messages.

Well that's all for today. I wish you interesting correspondence and acquaintances!